Sibling Rivalry

Sibling rivalry is an age-old rivalry that exists between the majority of brothers and sisters. Sometimes it is extreme and never dies over time. Then, you have circumstances in which they decide to burry the hatches. Nevertheless, every argument, every rivalry, every disagreement has a source and for some siblings, it is the beginning of a never-ending battle between one another. My siblings and I get along the majority of the time. We may have a few disputes here and there, but nothing to the magnitude of complete hatred or dislike towards one another. We never get in to arguments that our mother has to break up or intervene, considering they are a lot younger than me and it would appear extremely immature on my behave to continue a disagreement with a child. Some rivalries can even divide families. Whether parents realize it or not, some of them do have favorites which causes the other children or child to have a bit of hostility towards the one that is highly favored.

In my opinion, the best way to deal with intense sibling rivalry or disputes is to get to the source of the problem. Go back to where it all began and if it does have something to do with the parents, they have to be open minded and good listeners. It is rude to shut someone down or out because it is something you may not agree with, realize, or like. These issues can be resolved. It may take more time for others, depending on the situation, but it is definitely a problem worth solving.